When Do Sam and Dean Get the Baby

Supernatural'south final flavor has been a whirlwind of activity and so far. Concluding week, "The Rupture" took all of our feelings and stomped them into a sloppy, sticky, evil-smelling mess. In one corner, Sam Winchester (Jared Padalecki) was moping about his part in Rowena's (Ruth Connell) decease. In the other, Dean Winchester (Jensen Ackles) was having himself a big ol' Sorry about his and Castiel's (Misha Collins) latest breakdown. Prior to that, hell was cracked open (again) and God (Rob Benedict) went on the run (once more). With everything going on, we needed this hiatus week to take a breather and score some processed from the neighbors. Nevertheless, we're likewise taking this as an opportunity to discuss one of Supernatural'due south longest-running themes: Dean and Sam's codependency.

We've explored this many times before; Supernatural has built its mythology on this behavioral condition, masking what is ultimately an unhealthy, enabling relationship every bit "brotherly love." It's Psych 101 stuff here, and it's been frustrating at times because Supernatural clings to that bromance mask with cold, dead, zombie hands. It is i of those tropes that the serial has congenital its identity around that mayhap, if the show had ended after Season v's "Swan Vocal," we could have disregarded. But it gets harder and harder to ignore with each season.

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Now, Supernatural is not prestige television; it is a sexy bear witness about sexy men fighting sexy ghosts on the sexy CW. Merely that doesn't mean that it can't also exist deep and meaningful, as legions of Supernatural fans have discovered and argued for 15 seasons. And mayhap it is precisely because it's not the sort of intentionally dense series Mad Men or Game of Thrones were that Supernatural has opened itself up more readily to significant whatever its fans demand it to mean. For me, Season five aired during one of the lowest and darkest points in my life, and I saw a ridiculous corporeality of parallels between myself and Sam. I've interacted with cocky-described Dean Girls who make the same argument about seeing their own bug and struggles reflected in Dean's throughout the seasons. Then perchance information technology's just partly my (our) ain hang-ups throwing water on the Epic Dearest Story of Sam and Dean, but the codependency -- it'southward just so hard to lookout.

And information technology's not like the evidence hasn't acknowledged the same thing itself; in Season 5, Zachariah (Kurt Fuller) observed, "Y'all know yous tin't trust them right? You know Sam and Dean Winchester are psychotically, irrationally, erotically codependent on each other, right?" Supernatural revisited that very same sentiment in comments from both Rowena and Castiel in "The Rupture." While Sam was never really going to let Rowena live at the cost of the whole wide world, we can't ignore that what pushed him over the edge and got him to end sniffling and deed was Rowena asking Sam if he would let Dean die so that she could live. Dean was the button to push, and Rowena knew it.

Jared Padalecki and Jensen Ackles, Supernatural

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The Winchesters have repeatedly made poor decisions and taken deportment that accept hurt themselves and the world all in the name of saving each other since, well, pretty much the starting time of the series. John (Jeffrey Dean Morgan) gave his life so Dean would live at the stop of Season 1. Dean sold his soul for Sam at the terminate of Season ii. Sam took upward his demon blood habit afterwards failing to salve Dean at the stop of Season 3 and then justified it all through Flavour 4 by bringing upwardly Lilith dragging Dean to hell, and and then he accidentally busted Lucifer (Marking Pellegrino) out of timeout. Don't even become me started on Season five.

This design only goes on and on and on. The route to Winchester codependent hell is paved with the bodies of former allies and BFFs: Charlie (Felicia Twenty-four hour period), Ellen (Samantha Ferris) and Jo Harvelle (Alona Tal), Gabriel (Richard Speight Jr.), Adam (Jake Abel), Kevin (Osric Chau), Bobby (Jim Beaver). And, no, just because people are resurrected on this show with alarming regularity, it doesn't mean these losses are whatever less terrible.

Oh, and speaking of terrible, allow's talk about this exchange from "The Rupture," shall we:

Castiel: "Sam and Dean are but using you. Don't mistake that for caring well-nigh yous, because I assure you, they don't."

Belphegor: "Wow. You learn that the hard style?"

Castiel: *sad face*

Just considering Belphegor (Alexander Calvert) was a demon attempting to exploit the world's recent literal godlessness in guild to get the new all-powerful, pre-hiatus mulligan doesn't mean he was wrong. And Castiel knows that, which means the whole situation takes on a new level of suck. Castiel has repeatedly given all that he has to give. He's died a few times. He's given upwards his grace, his sanity, his family. He even gave up his own sort of "happily ever later on" when he was moonlighting as a healer with amnesia. He'southward been possessed. He's lost close friends. He's made hard choices that didn't always turn out then great. Castiel is a Winchester in all merely name.

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So ane would think that this means that the same codependency that Sam and Dean are wrapped up in would then extend to Castiel, and while the show has gotten dang close to going downwardly that road at times, the truth is, as Castiel himself put it, "[Dean] and Sam accept each other." Their messy, wrapped-upwardly-in-each-other's-business concern thing is their thing, and their thing lonely. Neither of them are going to die for Castiel. Time and fourth dimension once again, their devotion to Castiel just goes so far. Rowena didn't invoke Castiel when she was trying to convince Sam to kill her, after all.

Make no error, this is non me advocating that Castiel too be included in the unhealthy enabler convention that is the Winchesters' beingness. Something has to requite, and with the vivid light at the end of the tunnel looming earlier us, it's now or never for Supernatural to set the record straight and peradventure show a little (just a little) growth from all parties. Equally heartbreaking as Castiel's departure was last calendar week, it's an important step for someone who sees himself in an increasingly volatile and, frankly, abusive relationship. This could be Castiel's Stanford moment. You can't tell me that at that place wasn't some level of sadness for Sam when he ran off all those years ago, just it was important for Sam to extract himself from something he knew wasn't a healthy state of affairs. That his family held it against him just kind of solidifies that indicate.

Jared Padalecki, Misha Collins, and Jensen Ackles, Supernatural

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And this brings us to Dean. If anyone could do good from a Stanford moment, it's our ultimate "good son" and "perfect soldier" Dean. The terminal time we saw Dean strike out on his own -- actually recollect about his own wants and feelings apart from the needs of his family -- was in Season 9'south "Bad Boys." Initially, that separation wasn't Dean's conclusion at all. He never really got to the conclusion of that journey, heading dorsum to John and Sam in mid-thought. This wasn't the start time we saw Dean put Sam first on Supernatural, but chronologically, it'due south 1 of the earliest experiences in the Winchesters' shared lives and 1 of the most explicit examples of Dean's great and terrible martyr complex.

So Dean is going to be the claiming in this storyline, because he has convinced himself that he is fine with always suffering for his family, and that insistence has evolved into the bitterness and anger we see Dean display when other members of his family aren't upwards to snuff. Dean lashes out because he feels he is entitled to the same level of devotion that he shows... except he's non, and his idea of "devotion" is a lilliputian warped and controlling (Gadreel, anyone?). Dean's deprogramming is going to be the most difficult past virtue of his personality and the strength of his convictions.

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Now, Dean is non the villain here. None of them are. I'm not mad at Dean for what he said; Dean has struggled to exist honest about his feelings for forever. I'yard also non mad at Castiel for leaving; no one is obligated to allow themselves to be repeatedly injure while someone they intendance for very much is working through some issues. Simply I like to remember that Castiel's departure could be the catalyst for their piddling free will family to finally get their stuff together. He'south not as mired in their muck and has long been a sort of funhouse mirror for Dean and Sam's humanness. It may not feel like it to him correct at present, but his outsider status is a force -- it gives him the sort of perspective that the Winchesters are lacking.

Even so, I can't help just think it would accept been polite to at least requite Dean a heads-up almost that unsettling Sam vision before he peaced out.

Supernatural arrogance Thursdays at 8/7c on The CW.

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